| Contents |
Introduction "WHEN A CHAPLAIN NEEDS A CHAPLAIN" | 1 |
Section One STORMY SEAS-WHEN HEALTH IS THREATENED | 3 |
| A Prayer of the Sick | 7 |
| Facing Serious Illness | 9 |
| Hospital Blankets and Picnic Baskets | 11 |
| Oops! (Statements You'd Rather Not Hear from Your Doctor or Nurse) | 13 |
| Lessons Gleaned While Standing Beside the Sick | 15 |
| A Prayer for Medical Personnel | 17 |
| Overwhelmed | 19 |
Section Two IN THE WILDERNESS-WHEN ANSWERS AREN'T CLEAR | 21 |
| Why Do You Ask? | 25 |
| Damaged Goods, Broken Cookies, and Thumbs | 28 |
| Change: Is It All It's Cracked Up to Be? | 31 |
| Seeing Beyond the Chaos | 34 |
| What? Me Worry? | 37 |
| Not Yet | 39 |
| A Prayer of One Experiencing Depression | 42 |
| Lessons from a Horseback Ride | 44 |
Section Three SHARING THE TRAIL-BEING A CAREGIVER | 47 |
| How Can I Thank You for Such Teachers? | 51 |
| An Open Letter to a Hurting Friend: When Words Don't Come Easily | 54 |
| When Families Wait | 57 |
| Some Alternative Statements When Visiting the Seriously III | 60 |
| Is Resting a Waste of Time? | 62 |
| Tell Me About It: The Need to Be Heard | 65 |
| A Prayer of One Caring for Someone Ill | 67 |
Section Four IN THE VALLEY OF THE SHADOW-WHEN GRIEF AND LOSS PREVAIL | 69 |
| It Hurts to Lose: Giving Ourselves Permission to Grieve | 73 |
| Some Alternative Statements When Confronting the Crisis of Grief | 76 |
| For David | 78 |
| Remembrance | 80 |
| The Only Way Out Is Through | 82 |
| A Prayer of One Experiencing Loss | 85 |
Section Five GREEN PASTURES-TIMES OF REFLECTION AND THANKSGMNG | 87 |
| Have a Nice Journey | 91 |
| Through the years | 93 |
| Love Is Holding On and Letting Go | 96 |
| A Prayer of Reflection and Thanksgiving | 99 |
| Oh Grow Up! | 102 |
| Good Things / Best Things | 105 |
| With Thanksgiving For Friendships | 107 |
| Mountains, Valleys, and Places In-between | 110 |